| Location | Skipton |
| Age | 27 years |
| Cause of Death | Organ Failure |
| Date of Birth | 14/12/1980 |
| Date of Death | 14/04/2008 |
| Visitors | 1,616 since 09/08/2008 |
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Ian Allott aged 27 worked for Copper Dragon breweries and lived in Barnoldswick. Husband of Julie and daddy of Benjamin.
Died suddenly after going into hospital for a routine lung biopsy to see why he had a cough.
Ian was my soul mate the one person who had made me happy and loved. We met in 2000 and got married in 2005. Our beautiful son who was born in 2006 who is the apple of our eyes.
I sit now nearly 12 months on and cant believe he has gone. Cant believe I never get to touch him again,be daft with him, laugh with him, share a funny story or even nudge him during the night for snoring !!!
Ian had the dirtiest laugh which was very contagious. I loved everything about him. We never argued we just enjoyed each other.
I feel privileged that I got the chance to be with him and love him.
Its funny for months I have been fine having times when i been down but then I have told myself to stop being soft and get a grip but now its all too much and I just want him back. I don't want to move on, I just want what I had !!
All Grown up !!
I am feeling really emotional today, Its Benjamins last day at nursey then on monday he starts school he is going where we wanted him too Carleton, He is so funny i asked him this morning if he is sad to leave nursey he said no not really i am going to big school !
On wed he made me smile i asked him why he doesnt say love you mummy as often as he did and his answer was " I have given all my love to my brother so i dont have enough for you" didnt really know what to say to that but give him a kiss and a hug.
He did inform me last night he has enough love for me too now !
Oh god ian it breaks my heart everyday that your not here enjoying benjamin. He is so perfect and very clever and my god he is your double big brown eyes tall and slim and very giggy ! Oh and like you he loves watching tv lol.
I love you and still miss you so much it hurts.
Your wife always x x x x
3 years
Hey there darling been sat thinking about how its been 3 years since you were taken from me and benjamin. Sometimes i feel like its been a lifetime since you were here with us. My goodness if you could see benjamin now he is so fantastic 4 years old going on 40, he is a very happy and clever little boy who is so loving and has a great sense of humour. As you have seen i have met someone now who has given me another son Logan who is such a little cutie he reminds me of benjamin when he was little and looks just like him. I know you would like Stephen he is as loving and caring as you he is brilliant with benjamin and makes me very happy.
He always lets me talk about you and knows that i will never stop loving you but also knows that what i have with him is my future and i love him for that.
Our j is a secondary school now and its scary just how grown up she is a far cry from that little girl with pigtails in her hair and ice-cream over her face. Levi too him and benjamin still get on so well they are like little old men together Benjamin informs me he is his best friend which is great.
I love you babe and no matter what i do in the future you will always be in my thoughts and heart, i will never stop loving you, your wife xxxxxx
2 Years !!!
2 years todayy :(:(
Cannot believe it !!
I think about you everydayy !!
You are missed so much !!
We love youuu.
Lots of love form us all x x x
2009 so far
Well love it looks like we have been cursed first you leaving then me breaking my back ! God these things are really sent to test you. Good job my mum,dad,phil dez and nic are here for me cause i would have been buggered. I have been really disappointed that only Ian and Irene from your family have sent there Get well wishes. Guess i don't mean anything to the rest anymore ashame really but nothing i can do about it.
Benjamin is growing into a perfect little boy you would have been so proud of him !! He is starting to speak more and more and his sense of humour is great ! i miss you love and no-one will ever take your place.
love you always x x x
Jules aka wife
Miss You x
Well hun i cant believe its a year today since you got taken away from us.
It only seems like yesterday that we all went through that horrible day.
We all miss you so much.
It's still hard too believe you are really gone.
We all love you so much.
xxxxxxxx
Memorial
Well honey i have finally written what i want to put in the Craven Herald. Thought i would put on here whats going in from me and Benjamin.
Can believe its been 12 months since we shared a joke,i heard your voice or enjoyed a tender moment alone. Your leaving has been the hardest thing i have ever had to live through.
Your always in my thoughts and never forgotten. Our son is the perfect memory of what we had. I miss you so much.
My soulmate and one true love
Your loving wife Julie x x x
To daddy i miss you and love you always
Your son Benjamin xxx
2009
Hi honey just thought i would update you on whats been going on. Well benjamin got chicken pox on my first week back at work which wasnt good but not as bad as i expected. Work not going too bad like i said its my own fault for overspending. Had some good nights out which is a new thing to come to terms with. dont like it tho when i end up the only single person in the group but hey what can you do.
Benjamin is so funny now dont think its gonna be long before me and him have some big bad doms we are so alike its untrue. But i do spend most of the time think god your so cute and i am so glad your left here with me !!.
I think about you every day and i miss you like mad i do know that i will never meet anyone like you again you were one in a million
love you babe xxxxxxxxxx
Happy New Year x
Sorry i haven't been on to wish you a Happy New Year hun, had alot of things happening.
Still think about you so much though babeee.
Anyway it's abit late but Happy New Year
Miss You Millions .. Lovee Jodie x x x x
Happy New Year
Hey babe just wanted to wish you a happy new year and that i promise in 2009 i am gonna pick myself up and make you proud. I have missed you so much over this xmas period !! Just know that i love you now always and forever. x x x
Merry Christmas
Morning Hun well your son had a fantastic day yesterday he was so spoilt !! He got a bit over faced like he got last year i am not sure where its all gonna go yet though !! LOL
I got a nintendo DS lite from mum and dad. Straighteners from phila watch from dez and nic and a goody bag of all sorts from your mum.
I came to see you yesterday it wasn't the same without you. I am working full time from jan 5th my fault really spent too much money feeling sorry for myself ! In 2009 i am gonna myself into gear and finally take our son abroad like we were gonna this year.
Our son is growing into a lovely little boy he lights up every room he is in !!
He misses you so much like me.
Rite i have got a garage to build up that's in about 100 pieces !! oh my goodness.
Love you now and forever your wife Julie x x x x
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